It hasn't been a particularly tough week, but I still feel pretty drained.
Cal is not really in his terrible two phase any more, which is nice, but he has discovered his voice and he loooooooves to talk. I realize I should be so thankful to have a healthy little guy who likes to talk, and I hate myself for ever for being exhausted by it. I AM thankful for his words! It's just sometimes, when he follows me right on my heels saying, "what are you doing? what's that? your shirt? you put on a shirt now? cal wears a shirt too. what is there? where are we going? why you do that? where andy? where daddy go? he working? oh, daddy working. see my car? see it? see it, mommy? where are we going? you get dressed now. we go to gym? no, we go to park. okay? okay, mom? okay? you see?" that is wears me out! That trail came out of Cal's mouth in one breath the other morning.
but then....
I finished getting dressed and he got real quiet so I looked over at him (since it was silent for the first time in 25 minutes), and he goes: "oh, mommy, you look so pretty." and my heart melted. and I hated myself for even thinking he was slightly annoying. AND, I was just in workout clothes.
And, it's not like Cal has been needy, really, but he has been asking for a little more parent time than usual. He woke up from naps before Andy the other day and he just wanted to snuggle. He loves taking pictures with my phone so we did a few all snuggled together:
I can't get mad that he wants to spend a little one-on-one time with us... it just makes it a little difficult to cook dinner!
Potty training is going great. We finally had a #2 in the potty and we did all kinds of things to celebrate it. I wanted to make it a big deal so he wouldn't be afraid of it. He didn't really nap on Tuesday because I think he knew this was coming and he didn't want to go in his pants. I let him get up early (no break there) in hopes of him going.
On Wednesday, we went to the park in the morning after going on a quick walk with the dog. I asked him after the walk if he needed to pee, but he was so focused on going to the park that he refused to go. We got to the park and played hard for a while, and I knew he had to go, so I asked if he wanted to go, and he said "I need to go potty." I wasn't really thinking he would take me up on it, so I didn't have a plan for what to do with Andy. I couldn't just set him down in the middle of the sand since he would surely eat it all, so I did what any well-educated, level headed woman would do: I turned around in about 7 circles talking to myself while holding Andy out in front of me thinking of a place to put him while my child pooped himself. Yup. He tried to tell me. He was trying to hold it. But it just happened. In his big boy underwear. bummmmmeerrrrrrr. Oh, and also a bummer? I wasn't prepared. No back up pants. I had to strip him down in the parking lot and clean him up to go home. He was so sad to have to leave the park. I felt terrible because it was my fault for not having a plan for what to do with Andy. Well, also, really, where was he going to poop at the park? There aren't port-a-potties around there...did I expect my kid to squat in the woods? Poor planning all around.
He had school Thursday and kept his pull up dry the whole day. He went on the potty great and had zero problems. woohoo!
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| going up the stairs for nap time to get his pull ups on |
Today we went to the gym and then to Target. He did great again! He is only wearing pull ups to school and for nap time; it's big boy pants the rest of the time.
One thing I can't figure out is he has been leaking/wetting the bed every night...but he is in an overnight diaper... the SAME brand/size as before potty training and big boy bed. And he used to never have leakage problems- maybe once every 2 weeks, but never like this. I have changed the sheets on his new bed a TON! This week alone I have changed them 5 times (just between Monday and Thursday), and twice yesterday. I am not sure if he is holding it all during the day and letting it go at night? Or if I need to start cutting off his liquid intake earlier in the day. He was taking a sippy cup of water to bed with him, but after changing his sheets twice in one day, I banned that. It is HARD to change the sheets on the bed with a bed rail! I break a sweat every time!
So, not only has Cal been a little needier/chattier, but Hank has been too. It's one thing to have a two year old following you around talking non-stop, but it's another to have a 95 pound dog as a shadow. This morning, I was trying to get dressed (a common theme for me), and I had to take some pictures...
I turned around and ran into this:
I squatted to tie my shoe and he shoved his head on my lap:
I sat down with Cal and Hank came barreling in and decided he wanted to sit on my lap too:
That was a span of about 15 minutes. I love love love my dog. Seriously, I call him my first born. But I trip over that big guy 99 times a day. He is seriously my shadow. He might be telling me he needs more attention....
No real big updates to report on Andy. He is still about an inch from crawling at all times. Actually, if I wanted to be technical, he is crawling. He gets up on all fours and inches forward... but I am not calling it crawling until he crosses the room. :) That makes me feel better! HA! He is happy as can be, but is starting to get a little panicked when he can't see me. (are you noticing a trend here? There doesn't appear to be enough momma to go around.) He is happy 99% of the time, so that makes me happy. He isn't sleeping through the night, but oh well. I'll get him there one of these days. He has been getting up around 5ish. I tried letting him cry it out the other night and Eddie begged me to go get him after 5 minutes. He couldn't stand it. I might have to wait for him to be out of town again to try it!
Also, Andy is able to get into the sitting position on his own now. I went in to get him the other night and he was sitting up like a big boy in his crib! He will be rolling across the floor one minute, then sitting up sucking his fingers the next!
Here are some pictures from him this week...
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| WHAT is this thing?? |
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| he looooooves bath time! |
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| all set to go night night! |
Okay, so maybe after reading this post, it's a little more clear why I am worn out. But I wouldn't trade these
My gracious, I am long winded!!! I got Andy down for his nap today and Cal decided to fight his, so he banged on the wall and sang some songs, which woke Andy up after only 45 minutes of sleep. Cal then went to sleep, leaving Andy a hot mess. He is sitting here with me right now... snuggle time for me! Showering can wait, I guess!
(sorry for the long post...)
1 comment:
Oh, Hank is too sweet. And that picture of Cal sitting on the stairs is just darling. I love seeing pictures of your boys and especially how happy Andy is in *every* picture. You are blessed! But you already knew that. :-)
Abby
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